Chapter 6: Decision
Empowering children to take control of their own lives through meaningful decision-making
Core Viewpoints
The Essence of Decision
Taking Over Life: The true goal of parenting is to help children find the "light" in their hearts and take over their own lives
Cultivating Uniqueness: Every child is unique, help them become their true selves
Protecting Decision Rights: Respect children's decision rights, cultivate their self-worth, self-efficacy, and sense of entitlement
Autonomous Growth: From "obedience" to "I decide to do this," achieving precious transformation of self-drive
The Golden Effect of Decision
Correct Decision Cultivation Formula:
1 effective decision practice = 3× autonomy improvement = 5× confidence building = 10× life control sense
Common Misconceptions
❌ Overcontrol: Making all decisions for children, depriving them of choice rights
❌ Complete Abandonment: No guidance or boundaries, letting children bear consequences alone
❌ Obedience Education: Treating "obedience" as standard, limiting children's independent thinking
❌ Utility-Oriented: Only focusing on external standards, ignoring children's inner needs and talents
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