Chapter 3: Asking

Learn to truly understand your child's inner world through effective questioning

Core Viewpoints

The Essence of Asking

Deep Connection: Asking is to truly understand children's inner world, build trust and deep connection

Discovering Truth: Discover the real story behind children's behavior through asking, rather than staying at surface phenomena

Equal Dialogue: Use sincere, equal, respectful attitude, willing to try hard to understand children's thoughts

The Golden Effect of Asking

Correct Asking Formula:

1 effective asking = 3× deep understanding = 5× relationship improvement = 10× trust building

Common Misconceptions

❌ Condescending: Using interrogative tone, lacking sincerity and respect

❌ Preconceived Fault-Finding: With preset to find faults, blocking children from speaking their hearts

❌ Eager to Teach: Too eager to teach, blocking children from speaking their hearts

❌ Surface Understanding: Only listening to language content, ignoring non-verbal information and stories behind

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