Chapter 2: Criticism, Heartfelt Not Heartbreaking
Learn how to criticize constructively while maintaining emotional connection and trust
Core Viewpoints
The Essence of Criticism
Education-Oriented: Criticism is not scolding children for what's wrong, but teaching children how to do it right
Developmental Perspective: Not being able to do it is not wrong - understand children's developmental stages and ability levels
Emotional Connection: Express love and trust in criticism, let people be convinced to correct
The Golden Effect of Criticism
Correct Criticism Formula:
1 effective criticism = 3× behavior correction = 5× relationship repair = 10× growth motivation
Common Misconceptions
❌ Emotional Venting: Turn criticism into violent 'attack,' children remember nothing
❌ Utilitarianism: Want to quickly calm the situation, surface changes but problems not solved
❌ Imposing Standards: 'It's for your own good' - impose your own standards on children
❌ Perfectionism: Too high requirements, easily make children feel frustrated
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