Chapter 5: Letting Go

Learn to give children growth space and build their independence through wisdom and trust

Core Viewpoints

The Essence of Letting Go

Growth Requires Space: Letting go is to give children growth space, letting them learn independence through challenges

The Power of Trust: Believe children have the ability to face challenges and gain growth in "separation" moments

Transitional Support: Help children adapt to new environments through "transitional objects" and "transitional space"

Appropriate Challenges: Set challenges that are "just within reach" to promote ability development

The Golden Effect of Letting Go

1 effective letting go = 3× independence improvement = 5× confidence building = 10× growth motivation

Common Misconceptions

❌ Overprotection: Managing everything in detail, depriving children of autonomous growth opportunities

❌ Complete Abandonment: No support or assessment, letting children bear excessive pressure alone

❌ Learned Helplessness: Long-term control makes children lose initiative and confidence

❌ Internal Competition Anxiety: Parents' anxiety occupies children's growth space, creating unnecessary pressure

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