Chapter 4: Support, The Solid Backing
Learn to stand behind your child with wisdom, becoming their most reliable support
Core Viewpoints
The Essence of Support
Deep Connection: Support is to truly stand behind children, becoming the most solid backing for their growth
Finding the Pivot: Through wisdom and methods find the correct pivot for problem-solving, rather than simple help or replacement
Unconditional but Principled: Support children's growth direction, but provide help within reasonable boundaries and principles
The Golden Effect of Support
1 effective support = 3× growth motivation = 5× confidence building = 10× parent-child relationship improvement
Common Misconceptions
❌ Over-Replacement: Solve all problems for children, depriving children of growth opportunities
❌ Conditional Exchange: Treat support as transaction, "I support you, you must listen to me"
❌ Emotional Manipulation: Use sacrifice to gain children's guilt and obedience
❌ Blind Following: Not considering children's actual situation, blindly copying other families' practices
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