Tool 29 · Phrase · Free
Prompt Action Respectfully
A familiar routine needs a prompt and you want to avoid blame or threats.
Try this
“It's time to put the bag by the door. Do you want to check it now or after your snack?”
How to use it
Use a practical reason, a real choice, or an appropriate bit of play. The request should remain clear even if your child is not enthusiastic.
- State the action plainly.
- Choose a prompt that fits: a practical reason, two acceptable options, or a shared start.
- Allow time for the action.
- Use the agreed boundary calmly if needed.
What it can sound like
These are illustrative examples. Adjust the words to your family and your child's needs.
“Time to wash hands before eating. Shall we go together?”
“The kitchen needs clearing tonight. Would you rather wash or dry?”
Watch out for
Avoid false choices, moral labels such as 'good children,' and withholding food or care.
If it doesn't fit this moment
Ask what is blocking the start and clarify the expectation rather than adding more persuasive language.
Free template
A respectful routine prompt
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Reference reading
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