Today's Conversation Seed

It began as a few pages of notes tucked into the back of my work notebook. Every afternoon at school pickup, I found myself reaching for the same question - "How was your day?" There's nothing wrong with it. But it can also ask a child to shrink hours of living into a few quick words, and over time, turn conversation into routine.

I've always believed we're all longing to connect. And yet, in the name of connection, we can unknowingly fall into patterns that keep us at a distance. Children, no matter their age, want to be seen and respected - and they also need room to be themselves.

This column grew from a simple hope: to shift the starting point of conversation from learning about a child's day to getting to know the person they are becoming. Not the "highlights," not the "results," but the inner world - what they notice, wonder, worry about, and care for.

This isn't a parenting guide, and there are no perfect answers here. It's simply a collection of questions and perspectives - small doorways into more natural, open conversations. What matters most is not the questions themselves, or even the answers given, but the listening, the understanding, and the trust that grows between you in the process.

A daily question is both a habit and an invitation. May these prompts bring a little more depth, warmth, and resilience to the conversations you share with your child. I hope you find something here that helps - and I welcome your thoughts, always.